How to Get Out of the Tolerable Weight of Problems in Your Life

We try to meet our needs or get what we want by drawing specific things from s in our life that don't actually contain or have that specific resource to offer in the first place. Here acouple f examples of this. Maggie does not really like hector. She doesn't like anything about his personality. He's rather cold and practical and distant. And she would be happier she could just cut the relationship off altogether. But because maggie absolutely refuses to recognize this resource with in hector, who is already in her life, she just spends her time feeling super angryThat nobody can tell her how to get out of the tolerable weight of all the problems in her life.