Every bad thing that happens to you in life, regardless of what it takes from you, I think it also gives you something in return. For instance, if your three-year-long relationship falls apart and that gives you a reason to consider who you are and what you actually want in life and love,. If your dream job rejects you and that givesYou purpose to refine your skill set, that is purpose. This mindset is all about being free from ego, being vulnerable, and being understanding that life has a way of balancing things out, taking but also giving.