The Importance of Fighting the Battle in the Small Details

I remember thinking, why have I struggled so much with the idea of being a state home mom? Why was I resistant to that? This is a life of joy. So it just was a simple realization, but all of a sudden just dawned on me very forcefully. We're either going to fight the battle in those little details or we're not going to fight it at all. If we believe this, why aren't we fighting it in those minute details? That's where it really matters, right?