The Importance of External Behaviors in Real Growth

Externals can tell us something like where we're on, where we are in a map. But I think if you absolutize them, then they are no longer a trajectory. Like, there's no process. This is outcomes. Right? So, it seems to me that you need to have both. Is that right? Yes. And I think that what happens is the trajectories of growth that we have have to somehow get us to transcend ourselves so that we're not just concerned with our own growth. You're concerned with growth outside of just yourself. It's no longer just about living ideals inwardly with oneself. The beginning of real growth is learning how to be