The Experience of Love Is the Feeling of Oneness

Yogananda's guru says, forget the past because until we're anchored in God, in the true self, human behavior is unstable. If you really feel that the being of your partner is the being of yourself, it's almost impossible for that to be hostility and conflict if we feel this. That's what the experience of love is, the felt sense of oneness. So you pause the conflict, the irritation with the argument, connect with that feeling. And then carry on the conversation.