Is There a Fear That Identifying as Gay?

Cole: I didn't start self identifying as gay until I was like 29, like 29, 30. The term same sex attraction reminds me of those times when I've been taught that that's my orientation with a trial,. A temptation and an affliction of this life That wouldn't exist in the next life. Those were the years when he would have rather been dead and straight than alive and gay. He says labels can be important but just make sure you don't let any label or identify supersede these most important ones - being a child of God & disciple of Christ.