The Dangers of Not Being Able to Access Aggression or Dominance in Kind

I think it's worth interrogating within yourself to be like, is this person capable of meeting my sexual needs? And that can be another woman. It's not wrong to want aggressive, more dominant partnership. There may be times that you actually do want to go have sex with a man and miss that. That doesn't make you less queer. So maybe also part of the answer is like every partner that you have isn't going to 100% be everything that you need. I'm in my first woman loving woman relationship and I miss aggressive mask sex.