The Importance of Love in a Non Ideal Corrupt Structure

I think that Paul is engaging in the world as it is and calling the Patrick Familius, although I think he's replaced the head of the household with Jesus. The one with the power essentially is supposed to love the other as, as himself as his own flesh. And so this would lead to a kind of mutuality and that the wife really is called to the same station that she's already been inhabiting but the reasoning for it is always as unto the Lord.