The New Narrative of Fatherhood

One thing I spell out in the book that isn't quite servant leadership but I kind of label as the pre work. And it was fascinating how many of the ones that didn't do any pre work still struggled for five years and not necessarily with connecting with their child, even though that was present. How are you getting to know who you are as an entity in and of themselves because so many of us men are taught to do and have the role, rather than be.