I Don't Want My Husband to Notice Women at All?

We have to help our sons not become devourers and consumers of women simply for the sake of sexuality. The conversation about building healthier phraseology has to be able to exist, even if it's not the same conversation that betrayed partners need for their recovery process. If your spouse is using otherwise decent concepts or messages to avoid accountability for their addiction, then guess what? They're going to find absolutely anything that they can to weaponize it to avoid responsibility until they are willing to take responsibility and stay in healing. So yes, i can understand how it would be triggering to talk about noticing versus lesting to a betrayed partner who is just deep desiring for your partner, who is an addict