You're Non-Negotiables

I think that's more toxic and hurtful than even swiping left or right. You're making this investment and trying to bond with this person. And you continue to break it off instead of just being honest up front. I will say, this is not popular. Come to your first coffee meeting with your list. You're non-negotiables. So when you're getting to know someone, there's no risk. This isn't a job interview because you got laid off. There's no risk; you don't know them. It all just breaks down before Halloween. They rinse and repeat that cycle. The next five years of my life are going to take a lot of investment