Pornography and the Relational Dynamic of Grooming

The idea that a grandparent just left his pornography in the bathroom is grooming. And other times it's just this unwillingness to acknowledge your setting your child or your grandchild up for accesswe ithink that's one of the most heart breaking things. We're not engaging our bodies at all, and we're not understanding what that might be connected to. But there is such a hook that happens, and it's something we're not aware of at a young age.