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The Importance of Chemistry in a Relationship
When we feel like we've been missing something for a long time, we can hyper focus on that thing. When she felt chemistry, it made her forget about all of these other things someone would need to have and massively overvalue that chemistry. She had just decided that because she was feeling something intense, this was a really important thing to hold on to. It's just that we were missing a very, very important component of a long term relationship, which is intimacy. The second part of the pattern is when we overvalue something based on that overvaluation, we begin to give way too much.