"It's actually not that hard yeah tony robin says this thing he says he's like people live this box life. one on one you introduce them to all of your other friends and then more importantly when people invite you to stuff you just say yes and go out because you just go right," she said. "You should have some like variety and spice and twists and turns and some some flexibility with with the way you live" 'I think it's worth kind of like looking at like zooming out you know like when you need to get up take off in an airplane and everything starts to look like ants'  she added.