Are You Saying There Shouldn't Be Boys and Girls?

He asked me, are you saying that there shouldn't be boys and girls? And I said, well, let's take that as an example. That is a strange question. What led him to ask the question was because he didn't know if I'm really keen on gender as applied to me so much. So this kind of is bringing into how he, it's one of these conversations that because it's on Tinder, online with a stranger, typing things out on your phone,. It doesn't have a lot of detail in it.