i think sometimes it can be the case where you are trying, in a situation like this, to cover every possible permutation of every possible relationship. And even if you agree that the patriarchy is a prison and that, like, men are not sarily, like, the defacto bread winners in every family,  that doesn't make it not true for a lot of familiesmyed. But i think over all, he is being pretty maximist about it, and yet he is speaking to what i he's not spending a lot of time on.