Post College, Is There More Trauma Bonding?

I feel like it's harder for me to get to a certain level of friendship in two years post college Versus knowing someone for just two years in college. I think similarly to college, right? There's a lot of like pressure to get internships in the summer You know trying to get like the most prestigious things so you can set yourself up for post college Essentially and you know once again that is maybe a little bit of trauma bonding. Do we just need to make like adult pledging happen? Yeah We're like get around a table and pass around a bottle of wine or something We're like, all right. We have a list of intense questions.