i think staying up to date is huge, because i think both of us experienced being like and i think everybody has. One of the most common feelings, it seems, as you're growing up with parents, is like, god, ma'am, i'm not into harry potter any more. Or the mama is supposed to be like, why? Oh, ya. You don't like it. What are you into? Now, that's total rob bell. By the way, when rob would tell me about parenting, noe, s, you not always modeled tot like i'v the example that he gave as o,. my friend cal got an s v,