Heteropessimism in Relationships

It feels like there's a through line of with a lot of the straighter people you talk to in the book, like heteropessimism coming through when you talk about it. Do you feel that from the men as well or just from the women? There are a few comments that are made. So yeah, I suppose the conversation, there's also a bit of a double standard from some of the women. You know, they watch porn, but they don't want to know that their partner does.