Access Your Abilities in a Way Burnt Out You Could Never Compete With
Perfectionism Rewired
Understanding the Depleted Person Account and Its Impact
This chapter explores the concept of the 'person account', illustrating the brain's resources required for mental health and performance. It discusses the consequences of depletion in this account and offers insights on how even perfectionists can maintain well-being.
You’re doing everything right. You’re ambitious, successful + driven. So why is it your energy is nonexistent, patience is razor-thin + your mind can't stop overthinking? If your days are starting with dread and ending in exhaustion — this episode is your wake-up call.
On paper, you’ve got it together— isn’t it time you felt like it? Whether it's stop playing out worst case scenarios in your head or accessing your abilities in a way burnt out you could never compete with, Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/rewire
In this Episode You’ll Learn:
- How pushing through dewires your brain into survival mode
- What caffeine, people pleasing + Top Ramen have in common
- 16 surprising signs your brain is starving
- Why ruminating and indecisiveness are symptoms—not problems to solve
- How a healthy Person Account™ allows you to access your abilities in a way burnt out you could never compete with
Resources Mentioned In Episode 253:
- Recharge your Person Account Book your Perfect Start 1:1 session now
- Magic Skill for Control of Emotions [Neuroscience Series #1] Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 248
- How Perfectionist Brain *Actually* Works [Neuroscience Series #2] Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 249
- Can't Stop Ruminating? Here's Why [Neuroscience Series #3] Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 250
- Neuroplasticity [Neuroscience Series #4] Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 251
- #1 Thing Stops Perfectionists From Growth [Neuroscience Series #5] Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 252
TIMESTAMPS:
02:09-Why Perfectionists Need More Fuel for Our Brains
04:10-MYTH: You Have to Stop Being a Perfectionist
06:24-Clues You’re on the Path to Chronic Stress
09:32-Burn Out is Not the Price of Ambition
10:25-Case Study: How Stacey found Clarity, Energy, Peace
12:43-I Ruminate Over Decisions bc I Need to Make the Right Decision
14:05-Why You’re Choosing Instant Relief (and Paying Later)
16:11-A Healthy Person Account™ = Liberation
17:32-How to Always Know How Your Person Account™ is Doing
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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.
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