How Do I Build Industriousness in My Child?

As a parent, i guess there's this question for me of am. If we see our child is expressing themselves in some way that will subject them to the very real possibility of violence, right? What are the adptive behaviours that are not shame based? Yes, yes, you have my mind blown a little bit. O, i want to take a minute em and go into the protective nature of shame in an intergenerational lens. H ha, ha. All of the above. Ok, great. An all of theabove.