Can I Come to That Person From a Loving Place?

"Can I speak that super fucking scary? Really volatile truth, but can I do it from a place of love?" "There's just no way your partner has been quids in and everything's just fine. And it's been miserable for you," she says. 'You have to kick your ass to get clear so that what you're introducing into those situations is as hopefully generative as possible while still addressing uncomfortable truths'