"Happiness is a much more complex and often long and deep and studied unfolding if we ever get to that place," she says. "I can no longer live within a fanacy of what the world is ... I can't continue to hang out in my hoping for things to be different." She adds: "When i say accept, it doesn't mean agreeing with or condoning [what's happening]. But to make that step, to take that step, means that i have to to contend with a heartbreak".

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