In 20 11, opera talks about the episode that made her famous. L magazine quotes her as saying it was hard to watch because of her 'ego on flamboyant display' She says she did not do this for stedman and felt like people were looking at me as "the part that didn't fit in this relationship" There are many more comedy examples of stuff like this but a black oin who tries to do anything other than that deserves this kind of viciousness.