Are You Dealing With a Narcissistic Woman?

If you're dealing with a narcisistic woman, this is someone who needs to dominate you. She's confused when you are not doing these things. And she's baffled by this idea that you're not bending to her will. As long as you put your shoes where she wants you to put them, and as long as you validate her with the intensity that she want you to val her, you're good. You're good. But if you learned in childhood that when you had a need, you were abandoned or you were ridiculed, then your brain is just trying to keep you safe. Your brain is hearing you say, oh, i won't speak up because they might abandon me