i was always seeking to get his approval. With my mother, i felt like it was enough. Just my mere existence was enough for her to love and adore me. But with my father, so i always said, men were always this real mystery to me. Romantic relationships were a mystery, like, how do they actually work? Because i didn't learn, i didn't see a healthy a example of that growing up. And so how it impacted me in my relationships was that i was an over functioner, an overgiver, and really very codependent, but also very controlling. I'm feeling like lot of the work of the relationship itself is on you. Being a people
Do you find that you attach unusually quickly to people, whether in friendships or romantic relationships? Do you stay in relationships that you know are bad for you because the thought of being alone scares you more than staying in a bad relationship? Or do you repeatedly find yourself in relationships with unavailable people? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you might have abandonment issues. In this episode, I’m helping you recognize the signs of abandonment issues in adult relationships and reviewing the most common causes of chronic fear of abandonment.
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