My Ma'am Died Suddenly

i have had to live my adult life without her, just like you've had to live your adult life without your father. And there are a lot of days. There is a big difference between losing somebody who gets to be 82 and gets to be a grandfather and losing somebody whose kids are called students. You say that that grief is not a competition, and you know that. I don't think you feel that in your heart. Ino, i think forgive yourself for being competitive with your fiance's mother about her loss.