There's a cognitive bias in her mind that amplifies any kind of insult. She'll come in after thanksgiving d she'll say, my family ignores me. The more we talk about it, the more we'rl like, know, they don't actually play play favorites. It's just, you feel like less worthy than your sister. So then what she does is, since she feels ashamed, she starts acting out and manipulating people into helping her feel better. Another good example of this is something called para suicidal gestures. For for every one woman who kills herself, four men kill themselves. There's a lot of research into why men kill themselves more often than women. More men