Real Confidence Isn't the Ability to Say No to Things You Don't Want

"Nothing could be so sexy that it becomes the most important thing in your life to the detriment of everything else," she says. "Real confidence isn't the ability to say no to things you don't want real confidence is the able to say no when they're not right for you" If someone comes into your life and they've achieved more than you externally, doesn't diminish how much of a difference you make in your own life if all you did was look after your sick brother  you still have a big rich life that's important it's yours."