How to Discipline Your Kids

"We have this image of our own parents as being either good or bad. So we want to either emulate them or do the exact opposite of what they did," he says. "When kids are in it, when your kids are interacting with you, that you blast them with shame, guilt, blame, pain." 'I'm not saying that there's never a place for discipline,' adds father-of-two Michael Schulder.