i know i do this a lot where people, like, i get people to shit talk their parents. It's that we need to understand that, like, your dad is propagating, probably, like, quite unhealthy behavior and all his kids,. He's not unique there. Like i propagate unhealthy behavior and my kids. And as long as we're giving your dad a pass and we're ignoring his effects on you, then, like, how are you going to fix them? I don't even say that. There's no such thing. Oh, but we all propagate bad behaviour and our kids,like, i'm not a perfect parent. There’s no such thing in