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The Art of Broadening the Person's Perspective
People have two needs that they're trying to fulfil when they go to some one else for support. The first thing you do as you genuinely empathically learn about what happened to the other persons. Some people will need more time sharing their emotions before they're ready to transition into having their perspective being broadend. So if my wife comes to me with some chatter she wants to talk about, i'll stop, and then i'll ask her, eh, i totally get it. I have a thought. Can i share it? Sometimes she'll say, no, keep listening. Other times, sha, pleased. Tell me so so that's the art of being a good sater adviser