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Robin DiAngelo: Matt and Chris struggle with their fragility

Decoding the Gurus

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What Kind of Responses Do White People Have When They Feel This Way?

Do white people have when we often try to give them feedback on our racist patterns right tell me if you don't recognize these attacked silenced shamed accused insulted judged angry scared outraged yeah now how do we act when we feel this way well we withdraw. We go silent we argue we deny we focus on our intentions we seek forgiveness we explain we insist there was a misunderstanding and so what um and what kind of claims do we make to justify behaving this way and feeling this way i know people of color i marched in the sixties i took this in college i was a minority in japan the real impression is class you misunderstood me you're playing the race card if you knew me or understood me you

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