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How Did That Shape You?
As he young ager, remember wanting them to divorce because i didn't like shouting. For six hours, my dad would not really shout back. But em that definitely has shaped how i communicate now. I think probably a lot of er, quieter people who've had the experience of conflict growing up are pretty conflict averse. Fixing is it's not ok for somebody to be upset around me. Don't cry. Don't express emotion. It's a kind of smothering of everything that goes on around you. That's fixing. And it can be enormously damaging in relationships to behave in that way. Sometimes people need to be upset. We were upset. And it's authentic