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#244 This Therapy Changed My Life And It Could Do The Same For You: Internal Family Systems with Dr Richard Schwartz

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

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How to Get Your Exiles to Attach to You

This is what's called attachment theory. Attachment theory is very influential and most much of it very accurate about how kids do or don't attach to their caregivers. This is saying, let's get these these kid parts to attach to you yourself and start to trust you as a caretaker. And that really frees people up. So many relationship problems are cause because my exiles want to be taken care of by my wife. They don't know they can get anything from me, and so they lach. Your partner can be the secondary caretaker, not the primary.

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