Uncontrollable Boldness Is Not Seductive, but Scary

As in tantrism, you can create more pleasure by delaying the inevitable. The bold move should come as a pleasant surprise, but not too much of a surprise. Don't plan your bold move in advace. Wait for the opportune moment. Be attentive to favorable circumstances. This will give you room to improvise and go with a moment which will heighten the impression that you are suddenly overwhelmed by desire. Their surrender will relieve tension like a long awaited summer storm. Keeping your targets emotional will both weaken them and heighten the drama of the moment. And the best way to keep them at an emotional pitch is by infecting them with emotions of your own.