The Role of Weakness in Character Change

One of the most groundbreaking concepts I learned from Jim is that we change much more according to who we love rather than the truth we know or how hard we try to behave well. The people we're attached to are the ones that are going to most change us and change each other. It's like a zone where transformation is common when we have deep, deep attachments to each other. We don't just share our successes, but we regularly share our failures,. Our disappointments, our emotional sadness and difficulty.