Almost never. I mean, pardon me, wants to say, almost never. It depends on exactly what kind of situation you're in. If theyre still may be interested and just not sure, then, by all means, try to figure out what's going on,. But if they want to leave, now let em leave. Do something else. Get another person. Find some one who is a better fit with you from the start.
Welcome to the September 2021 Ask Me Anything episode of Mindscape! These monthly excursions are funded by Patreon supporters (who are also the ones asking the questions). I take the large number of questions asked by Patreons, whittle them down to a more manageable size — based primarily on whether I have anything interesting to say about them, not whether the questions themselves are good — and sometimes group them together if they are about a similar topic. Enjoy!
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