The Importance of Putting in 100% Every Day

We sort of lose the adult track sometimes or, you know, how we want to be. And I do, I like to reinforce this idea of relationships are not 50-50. They're 100-100, right? Yes. So really putting it, and I always like with women especially, I have to say it's not 150. It's 100,. You know, 150 is the codependency. But really putting in your full self all the time, and I often compare it to work: If I was at a job and I put in 50%, I would not expect raises or promotion. Right. The couple is a shared resource; if you're taking away from your partner