What's the One Thing to Remember: Play Bigger

Welcome back to another amazing episode of 'Productive Joy,' Today, Dr. Christie welcomes Dr. Cindra Kamphoff, a bestselling author, coach, and founder of the Mentally Strong Institute. Dr. Kamphoff shares practical tools to boost confidence and joy, explaining the concept of 'head trash' and how automatic negative thoughts hinder performance. 

She discusses her personal battles with confidence, the findings of a national research study on Gen Z, and her life-changing experience at the Boston Marathon bombing. Dr.Kamphoff emphasizes the importance of living with purpose, staying present, and doing small, courageous acts daily. 

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:24 Meet Dr. Cindra Koff

01:16 Understanding Head Trash and Confidence

03:41 The Confidence Study and Gen Z Insights

07:17 Books and Practical Tools for Confidence

09:14 Dr. Cindra's Journey and Purpose

15:47 Creating Productive Joy

23:05 Rapid Fire Questions and Key Takeaways

A Deeper Dive:

In a recent episode of Productive Joy, Christie sat down with Dr. Cindra Kamphoff, a renowned performance psychologist, bestselling author, and founder of the Mentally Strong Institute. With heartfelt insights and practical advice, Dr. Kamphoff shared her journey and the powerful tools she's developed to help individuals unlock their potential and live with purpose.

Dr. Kamphoff discussed an acronym from Daniel Amon's book, "Change Your Brain, Change Your Life": ANTs, or Automatic Negative Thoughts. She emphasized the importance of recognizing and not automatically believing these thoughts, advocating for a conscious effort to choose what we believe and improve our self-image.

The discussion also highlighted Dr. Kamphoff's research on confidence, especially among Gen Z individuals, many of whom feel "not enough." Her findings reveal a fragile confidence often exacerbated by societal pressures and incessant comparison to others. But Dr. Kamphoff encourages a mindset shift, emphasizing the power of self-worth and purpose. Her upcoming book, "The Confidence Mindset," will delve into practices that foster self-belief and confidence.

Dr. Kamphoff has authored several books offering practical guidance for high performance and leadership. "Beyond Grit" provides tangible tools for personal growth, while her forthcoming book aims to equip readers with strategies to build unwavering confidence. Her work lays a foundation for individuals to thrive by harnessing the power of mindset.

A significant aspect of living with productive joy, according to Dr. Kamphoff, revolves around understanding one's purpose. She recounted a transformative experience during the 2013 Boston Marathon bombing, where she realized her race didn't matter as much as her family and her life's work. This wake-up call propelled her to live with purpose and inspired her to help others do the same.

Flow, an essential component of joy, is often disrupted by three F’s: future orientation, forcing outcomes, and focusing too much on results. Dr. Kamphoff advises training oneself to remain in the present, using mindfulness to ground oneself and fully experience the moment. Her insights resonate with Christie’s listeners, encouraging them to savor life's small joys.

Dr. Kamphoff emphasized the importance of setting big, courageous goals and doing "one thing every day that’s a little bit scary." By consistently stepping out of comfort zones, you can play bigger and achieve their dreams. She likens courage to a muscle that strengthens with use, allowing people to stretch beyond perceived limits.