The Importance of Forgiveness

The first thing is finding something redeeming about the other person. The second thing is finding an excuse due to the circumstances without excusing their behavior in the circumstances. Number three, focusing on the greater reward. Wheliyah, fu'wala yasfahu'ala to hebunayah firallahu alaikum. Don't you want Allah subhanawata'ala to forgive and pardon you? It takul wulunfah, in the vulumah vulumahvulumahtun yomil kiyama. Beware of wronging someone because it will be darkness for you on the day of judgment.