The Importance of Focusing on What You Do Have

LZ Granderson: The letters broke my heart. I remember that feeling so well. It just feels like it will never end that kind of loneliness and that everyone around you is happy and figured it out. At least that's how I felt sometimes. But at 35, I really went through this transition. And once that happened, I didn't feel the loneliness in the same way. LZ: When I realized that I was part of this massive demographic shift of more unmarried people than ever before, I felt less lonely.