You Can't Be Both a Victim and Be in Control

i know that may seem harsh, maybe even lacking ampathy, but dropping that narrative was truly the best thing i've done in my life. Ita, the victim hood idea is a wolf in sheep's clothing. We are wired not to see the good, but to identiy yand avoid the bad. If these walls could talk, they would unveil to you the brilliance that exist slightly out of frame. They would suggest you look over your shoulder and take a peek at how far you've come. And you'll smile at yourself knowing it's not because of what the world provided. You've found a way to get off and create something new.