Finding the Words

The title of your book Finding the Words came as a response to this common kind of truism in response to a tragedy. There are no words. No words can truly capture what's happened and magnitude of thrones reaction. But I want to make it clear because I have gotten some feedback from people who are like, you know, I found that phrase comforting Because it's the person trying to say that the normative your loss is so, is so vast that I can't begin to express the pain I feel for you.