"You don't want to risk, like, the possibility of the perfect relationship while you're not even invested in it," she says. "So how does your mind protect you from screwing up the perfect relationship trend? What is it doyou try hundred %, and what is not trying?" 'It's just going to reinforce and confirm the fact that you're fundamentally broken,' he adds. "'If something actually is crap, ou know there's a thing that's actually working' You are never going to truly be rejected if you keep working on it, ceee."