Episode 214: We May Not Have Control, But We Do Have Power
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
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I've Been Able to Negotiate the Similar Ugly Urges in Me
"We all have the capacity to disintegrate into our most unhealed most animalistic selves right where we we act out of instincts and fear so I want to speak to that part of you that I see in myself really quickly," she says. "The behavior you exhibited is a band aid it is a short soothing practice and that's why you went to such extremes was because the only way for you to feel a sense of long term healing" 'I don't have the bandwidth to control everything my partner does and says say,' he adds. "'It probably took up a lot of your life to orchestrate such manipulation', Sam writes about his time as an Enneagram therapist, which
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