How to Develop a Relational Mindset

i struggled in the early days of my leadership journey and confronting others for fear that i would be hurting feelings or causing others a relational challenges. The first step for me was really to establish conduct, what is called the correct mind set. John teaches that there's three questions that every, every follower is asking about you. And those are, can you help me? Do you care about me? Can i trust you? We talk about that frequently. But before i have a difficult conversation, i used those three questions to put my ind and in the right positionAbout why am i why do i need to move forward, and move forward quickly with this wase i'm trying to help this person