How Private Are We When We Live in Community?

I think my fiction is always concerned with a the gap between the internal and external, which is more reflective of our actual existence. And i honestly don't know, you know, whether it's ego or cowardice, is something negative getting in the way of our expressing them? Because they're not necessarily true or that worth while anyway. It can't be done on filmer, or really in any other a medium. Once it's out there, it is. Those words are entirely up to some one else's interpretation.