The Self or the System?

Sally Kohn: Is it the self or is it the system, because when we're having conversations about personal development and well being. She says a lot of what she's seen is essentially bootstraps mentality but for personal development you should just be able to change your thoughts. "I've been living for the last 12 years in spite of my accent, we live in a world where we're told that we should be the change that we want"