Find out what bothered the other. What are the underlying qualities in the other person that were triggered or stirred up? And really try to understand and make sure you understand really what was going on here, rather than jumping to conclusions. Then zero in on what to do from now on. That's the maximum you can deliver ed to whateer. We get emals with some regularity that goes something like this: "I just want to find somebody who thinks i'm valuable"

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